Nurturing the introvert

Mrs Emma Lowry, Head of England House

Those who know do not speak, those who speak do not know. — Lao Tzu

This famous Chinese quotation refers to 德 ‘de’ — a Taoist concept often translated as ‘inherent character or inner power’. It reflects the cultural importance placed on quiet composure, inner contemplation and humility. Chinese and other Asian cultures respect quiet. And quiet people.

Silence is a way of communicating; it is better to talk too little than too much. Cultural mores influencing this mindset include the desire for group harmony and the belief that withholding one’s true opinion signifies politeness. In many Asian countries, characteristics such as reserved quietness, listening to others, and introversion are highly respected (Cain, 2011), qualities which are not so well regarded in western culture.

Reflecting upon my time teaching in Japan, I remember how I felt discouraged when students did not seem to participate or engage in class. High school students in particular did not ask questions and, if I asked them questions, they would often just stare back at me in silence. It took me some time to understand that, in Japanese society, actions are valued more than words, and it is the quiet, persistent student who receives the praise.

Recently, all students received their Semester 1 reports and Year 10 and Year 8 Parent–Teacher interviews have taken place, leading to discussions about student progress and levels of engagement. The ‘Engagement in Learning’ comments on student report cards have given pause for thought; and I have considered how I ascertained ‘engagement’ of the quiet, possibly introverted, students in my care. While cultural differences can have an impact on where students sit on the introversion–extroversion spectrum, the fact that our Australian education system encourages students to vocalise their opinions in a collaborative learning environment and to be positively, actively engaged in an extrovert-centred world also needs to be considered. There is a need to foster different types of engagement and participation to individually cater for every girl. What constitutes ‘engagement’ differs for everyone, particularly for students who are introverted.

At least one third, but possibly closer to one half, of the population are introverted (Cain, 2012). Introverts thrive in environments that are not over-stimulating, and tend to enjoy quiet concentration. If your daughter is an introvert she may recharge at the end of the day by being alone with her thoughts and undertaking inner contemplation (Petrelli, 2012). Conversely, your extroverted daughter would be energised by social situations and tend to be an assertive multi-tasker who thinks out loud and on her feet (Goudreau, 2012).

In every class I teach, in every House in the School, there are students who are very good listeners, who are cognizant of what is happening in class, who know the correct answer, and yet don’t feel comfortable to answer questions or to engage in class discussion. While it is vital for these students to develop the skills they need in order to survive in what can be deemed as an extroverted society, it is also necessary to recognise their needs and nurture their sensitivity. How can we, at Brisbane Girls Grammar School, engage students who are introverted, as well as support exceptional scholarship so that each girl acquires the confidence to contribute to her world with imagination, wisdom and integrity?

Ms Natalie Smith, our Dean of Studies and Planning, speaks of the need ‘to find that all important balance between fuel and space, between facts and learning, to find the gaps to breathe and find meaning, so that the fire of deep understanding can ignite and burn passionately’ (2013). The importance of creating the mental space to ponder is equally important as creating the physical space to develop deeper understanding and enhance academic performance. According to research psychologist, Anders Ericsson, ‘solitude’ is the key ingredient required to enhance exceptional achievement (Ericsson, Krampe, & Tesch-Romer, 1993). While introverts prefer to work individually and crave solitude, if we consider this notion in the actual classroom, it is actually the extroverts who unfortunately often fail to realise their true talents. The quietness and the time needed to practice music or study mathematics requires a solitude that they try to avoid (Cain, 2012, p. 83).

The need for quiet spaces for students, both introverted and extroverted, to spend time in solitude — for creativity, for contemplation and reflection, for solo-thought and for dedicating pure attention toward time on task — is being incorporated in the plans for future campus development at Girls Grammar. And while solitude can provide the quality of attention required to effectively learn tasks (Smith, 2013), it must also be noted that collaborative work in open spaces has a rightful place in the contemporary learning environment. For introverted students, however, collaborative learning should be in small groups and well managed.

Interestingly, research into the productivity of group performance indicates that as the size of the group increases, the group performance decreases. Groups of four generate better and more creative ideas than groups of six, who do better than groups of nine (Cain, 2012). For introverts, the best approach for group-work in the classroom is to have small groups of two or three, and clear roles for each student. In class discussions, teachers should encourage the quiet, introverted student to contribute ideas earlier, rather than wait until everyone has voiced their opinions and the tension has built up internally.

Online discussions are wonderful platforms for introverts to voice their opinion. The way we communicate and interact via social media and the Internet is positive for introverts, as it gives them the time and the space they require to think (Sparks, 2012). Moodle, the School’s internal learning management system, is an excellent resource for introverted students to be actively engaged in subject material. In 2014 the School’s Bring Your Own Device (BYOD) policy will be implemented, thus giving students greater opportunity to receive a broader range of classroom materials online through their preferred technological devices. Students can choose to individually process and reflect upon concepts in a more accessible environment, potentially allowing for a richer discussion in class, as the time and space for thinking and analysing has been provided. Using Moodle and engaging via small groups will not only empower students who are introverted, but it will help develop their confidence to contribute to the wider world around them.

Principal Ms Jacinda Euler states that, ‘A Girls Grammar education recognises the particular strengths and needs of the individual, seeking to draw out the very best in every girl’ (2013). While our education system values collaborative learning, interactive participation and asserting one’s opinion, in order to support exceptional scholarship, we believe that it is imperative to also recognise individual needs and nurture students’ sensitivities for each and every girl to reach her full potential.

We know from myths and fairytales, there are many different powers in this world. One child is given a light saber, and another a wizard’s education. The trick is to not amass all the different kinds of available power, but to use well the kind you’ve been granted. To possess such a key is to tumble like Alice down her rabbit hole. She didn’t choose to go to Wonderland — but she made an adventure that was fresh and fantastic and very much her own. (Cain, 2012, p. 266)

References

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Ericsson, A. K., Krampe, R. T., & Tesch-Romer, C. (1993). The role of deliberate practice in the acquisition of expert performance. Psychological Review, 100, 363–406. Retrieved July 26, 2013, from http://graphics8.nytimes.com/images/blogs/freakonomics/pdf/DeliberatePractice(PsychologicalReview).pdf

Euler, J. (2013). Welcome from Ms Jacinda Euler. Retrieved July 26, 2013, from http://www.bggs.qld.edu.au/about/from-the-principal/

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